Grow...be a Man that God proud of you...

It was amazing...
It was wonderful...
It was a miracle...
and...a huge thing..to have you in our life...

Darling,
You gave us spirit of life...
You teach us how to be parent..
You deliver us the most genuine love..we've ever known
and you are the reason..that we have to be strong...

in the 4th year of your age...
We cant believe that you are so understanding..
So..considerate, persistent..and dicipline..
Even you didnt have enough example from us...

Darling,
We are so proud of you..
Nothing we expect from you..but GROW..
be a Man that GOD proud of you..

Happy Birthday Anugrah-ku sayang..

Mommie loves you so much

you complete me..

Izzi's birthday

Nugra enjoyed izzi's-birthday-yummy-strawberry-cheesecake...as usual Mom finished all the left-over both from Gifta and Nugra...got big portion in the end...

The girls did have a great time ..ooops not only the girls...Nugra what are you doing...? aren't you supposed to play with the boys...? where are the boys anyway....

Izzi-the-bithday-girl with Gifta..
they're both sweet and adorable,
aren't they?

Behind the scene...

incoming text message from Izzi's Mom :

"Hi Gifta and Nugra, hari Kamis ini main ke Prefere Kemang jam 3 sore yaa..Izzi ultah nii.. Ditunggu yaa. RSVP ya. thx"

hhmm.. party invitation for gifta n nugra..., Moms are familiar with names of kids at school from stories they told us ... its so funny among Mothers at school but we've never officially known each other... even names ... but we knows the kids.., whenever we (read-mothers) met we just mingled... talked about children without introducing our each other names..until we think that we should ... (am i right Moms?... wink..wink..)

Btw about the party, Gifta and Nugra haven't been to Prefere Kemang before....it was public holiday.... jadi kebetulan neech..sekalian ngisi liburan.... Turned out it was really nice party...we stayed till the end...Happy Birthday Izzi! we did have a great time..!!! Diana..

Ssst... my girl has already made a list who's going to be invited.., she wants the same birthday as Izzi's.... repot kalo gini urusannya...;-)

Like any other day...

Story about our last week-end
Saturday, 15 March 2008

No Candle Light Dinner
No Romantic Plan on the table
No whatsoever so called special thing..

the day was spent by extending the over-due driving license...
the day was spent by eating favorite kangkung noodle in Kemang...
the day was spent by having husband-wife talks..

about children..
about old days...
about pension plan....

It sounds like any other ordinary week-end
Yes it was...completely..
But still another day that we should be thankful for....

Happy Birthday ... Ayah..!!
Thank you for being a such good friend, father and husband..
.....thats all we need !!!

Gank of Narcis Lady...

in my age... I've been mingled with kinds of people...with different kind of characters, either from my work life or personal one, i found it very interesting... we could learn so much from that, sometime we got crashed with some people because of their character or habit, and sometime we could just easily get along with someone for same reason..., im not saying that this one is good, better or bad or worse... the matter is only different.., some people could get along or make friend for the same interest, hobby,....or nothing just truly friendship...

recently i became an observer...of the two ladies who really get along pretty well, joined them in their conversation over coffee and cheese-cake, heavy buffet lunch ... or just casual daily conversation over handy Y!...it looked that they always had fun..in their conversation... the subject is not always serious..but not always light..what do you call that...? what made me interest in writing about them for it seems that they always have topics to talk about...being supportive, not judging..they're very opened about the dark secrets of theirs...,with all the things..make more interesting the fact is that they are very narcis..in the different kind of way...

How narcis? oh...verrrrrrrrrrrrrrry.......


.... story in a-very-casual-conversation .......


me : hey..you guys realize that you've been very narcis...

Lady 1 : not really ... what we are talking... i meant about us ... its fact and proven (with - full-of -joke - tone)

Lady 2 : yes...proven abizzzzzzzzz......(same tone...)

they're talking about people specially mostly Man regret after ... leaving or giving up their relationship with them ... ck..ck..ck..ck...dasyaaat!!! really something, isnt it? funny thing is that i didnt see it negatively... that is only the way they saw everything from the bright side when everything didnt work out as expected ... so then i called them "Gang of narcis Lady" ...they're completely fine with that..of course..'fact and proven' .... right Ladies?

anyone's interested in joining the Gang?....i've been told some conditions applied :

• should be woman at least 35 years old...(least to make them not to look old...)


• if married you have to be a submissive wife (non negotiable...)


• happy and proud of what you are now...(not for past or future....-read- illusion)


• have spirit of truly friendship....(not for interest or money - read- ngga ada pinjem-pinjeman duit- just asked....gile bener!)


• no hypocrite welcome (ke laut aja....)


• anything you say for the reason of being narcis should be fact and proven...


• being narcis allowed only within the gang...(limited edition and environment....)


• the last but definetely not least..."sesama narsis dilarang saling mendahului.."

Phew....anyone....anyone? Ladies...come out..come out wherever you are....

Ps. ha..ha..ha.. it's joke in the middle of the day...yours truly...

Field Trip to Safari Garden

Its been a week delaying this post, guilty feeling to my boy ... that could not make this entry in time like he's been treated unfair by yours truly but anyway..better late than never, sorry nugra ....

After his sister went to planetarium, Nugra also had field trip program to Safari Garden... to see all the animals..., and its compulsory for one adult to go with him in the bus.., and i did promise my boy that i would go with him...it was really unfortunate that i was not really in good condition... low blood pressure, i couldnt even get up the day before...but my words to him attached to my bones.. i force myself to go....(very glad that could make it till the end..)

Having finished animals trip and the show.. the group had free time, and most of students went for game.. we did have a great time.. only my stupidity...when tempted to go for spinning boat...oh my gosh..forgot my condition.. and i almost passed out...(funny ha..ha..!!)

you should see how nugra enjoyed the trip with frens....btw guys..he's been telling me that he got a favorite friend -- if you know what i mean -- ok..you may take a guess...(wink..!!)

Taking this opportunity, i would like to ask parents of Medi, Sisuka, Najwa, Nikita, Lala, Amira... and names that i might miss to mention..... to put picture your children..here, hope you dont mind...thank you...