Having learned some experience of a dear friend of mine who tragically stop working for some reason and regret it after that, and some celebrity gossip news on TV, how tragically they got divorce and husband got the custody of children...how so? little children they live separately from their mums..thats what happen. Im not playing "preaching-game" today maybe later...tomorrow :-), I just how misserable the mum and children both live separated...or probably the hubby also, but they are adult they make the decision..so thats it simple-but-complicated.
what i've been thinking in this kind of situation is that most reason that why those women have to work so hard for the family i dont know how hard but that the least that i got the impression from, thats including also the my dear friend. She worked so hard for the family, and i can say that she was the backbone, she went out of the island for like a month for the sake of "rejeki", and she did it in regular basis...till in the certain point that she felt very tired of being family back-bone, i dont know maybe she started to think of hhmm
..."why should i be the one who responsible for the whole thing..or maybe I contribute to my family more than i should or more than my husband has done..or even my husband has done nothing but being my burden..."
During those time, She met other man with his all accessories that can charm any mid-age-woman.., she got trapped with those kinda-mumbo-lie-jumbo-story. I dont know exactly what happened but finally she decided to quit the job .... and tell everything to her hubby about her feeling....
BUMP!! of course Husband got hurt, the wife got un-stable emotionally...and she said now its up to her hubby to support family life...she's tired thats all... she got 2 teenager by the way..
Make the story short, after a while the husband still cant got the job..she could not stay at home peacefully cause of she is worry of everything...and even more paranoid oohhh..dear, i wanna slap in her face actually but who am I? she started complaining that she got difficulty handle the children and so on..so on.....and she found herself not suitable just stay at home just be a house-wife.., now she's starting to hunt a new job....
I dont know how should i learn from this, the things is that i have a good reason why i should go to work...and Woman definetely cant afford mistake that it might happen concerning other man involved...(?) but anyway not to worrry to much I have Angels that GOD send to guard me day and night... GOD have Mercy on me....
